Caregivers often feel alone and isolated in their duties, especially when they are the primary caregiver with little or no opportunities for respite care. Perhaps there is no one else in the immediate family with which to share caregiving responsibilities. In some cases, caregivers feel as if they are the only ones that can provide the “right” level of care for their loved one.
Even if you are the primary caregiver, it is imperative that you have a support system and respite care when needed. Throughout this blog we’ve talked about how important communication is and we’ve also talked about caregiver burnout. Now is not the time to stubbornly insist that you have to do it all.
Sadly, though, many caregivers simply don’t have anyone else to turn to. They would gladly accept help but in many situations they are the only family member or the only one close enough to care for their loved one. In these situations, it is important for caregivers to be aware of other resources that can provide support during this difficult time.
There are a variety of resources available for caregivers and the family and loved ones of a person requiring full time care. Many of these are national or international organizations. There are also many local resources available for caregiver respite or supplemental support. It’s important to explore the local, regional, national, and Internet (online) resources for caregivers and other family members and friends.
One way to find support for your situation is to look at the organizations that cater to the specific illness or ailment of your loved one. For example, the American Cancer Society provides resources for caregivers including an online Caregiver Discussion Board.
Whether your loved one is suffering from cancer, diabetes, Alzheimer’s, or another disease or condition, there are resources available for family members and caregivers that could prove valuable during this difficult time. The Internet has vast resources at your fingertips and most communities also have resources for caregivers.
It is our sincere hope that you have enjoyed this blog on caregiving and have found useful information from which you can benefit. If you are a caregiver – bless you! It is not an easy burden you bear but do realize that you don’t have to bear it alone. There are a vast amount of resources available for caregivers.
If you are a friend or loved one of a caregiver, don’t let another day go by without offering your services. You don’t have to be an expert or have special knowledge to be a friend, hold a hand, or cook a meal. You can make a considerable difference in the life of someone who is likely burning the candle at both ends. No matter how large or small your contribution, it will be appreciated!
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responsibility. Don’t overlook the role of humor to make things more bearable. Things that made me angry and frustrated when my mother (who had dementia) was alive, in retrospect are filled with funny happenings. This is true too for the many caregivers who read my blog and contact me about my book which emphasizes humor as a healing balm. Caregivers need all the emotional support they can get.
Bob Tell, Author
Dementia Diary, A Caregiver’s Journal
http://www.dementia-diary.com
http://caregiverchronicle.blogspot.com/